Listening Can Be
- Jul 18, 2023
- 2 min read
Updated: Feb 28, 2025
Waiting
Reacting
Responding
Prospecting
Understanding
Key to hearing
Paying attention
A psychological act
An act of composing
Giving consideration
The first step in humility
Hearing what isn't said
A discipline, not a skill
Give attention to a sound
Paying attention to sound
Being affected by what we hear
The foundation of proper living
Key to all effective communication
Making an effort to hear something
The key to everything good in music
Seeking synchronicity with a speaker
Being able to be changed by a speaker
Giving attention to a sound or action
Being alert to catch an expected sound
Being alert and ready to hear something
Harvesting what is in the speaker's mind
Hearing something with thoughtful attention
A lamp that dispels the darkness of ignorance
Taking notice of and acting on what someone says
The oldest and perhaps the most powerful tool of healing
Making and strengthening a connection with another person
Communicating non-verbally that someone is important to us
Paying attention to somebody or something that you can hear
Taking a vigorous human interest in what is being told to us
The best remedy for loneliness, loquaciousness, and laryngitis
Actively receiving and responding to spoken and unspoken messages
Hearing what others are saying and trying to understand what it means
Accurately receiving and interpreting messages in the communication process
Understanding why someone is saying something, not just what they are saying
Identifying the sounds of speech and processing them into words and sentences
Experiencing heightened awareness or expanded awareness of sound and of silence
A reciprocal process - we become more attentive to others if they have attended to us
Receiving, constructing meaning from, and responding to spoken and non-verbal messages
The interpretative action taken in order to understand and make sense of something we hear
A primitive act of love in which we give ourselves to another's word, making us accessible and vulnerable to that word
Attending to a speaker - understanding what they're saying, responding and reflecting on what's being said, and retaining the information for later
Using our ears to receive individual sounds (letters, stress, rhythm and pauses) and using our brain to convert these into messages that mean something to us
The temporary giving up or setting aside of our own prejudices, frames of reference and desires so as to experience as far as possible the speaker's world from the inside