Self Control
- Aug 9, 2021
- 4 min read
Updated: Oct 29, 2024
Freedom
Sobriety
Strength
Abstinence
Temperance
Self-denial
Fleeing lust
Self-command
Honouring God
Wisdom’s root
Resisting evil
Conquering self
Self-discipline
Self-government
Self-regulation
The best riches
The main elegance
Victory over self
A gauge of success
Guarding our heart
Managing ourselves
Overcoming desires
Suppressing desire
The highest virtue
Character in action
Governing ourselves
The main discipline
Attention management
Motivating ourselves
Resisting temptation
Listening and obeying
Strength of character
The result of bravery
Being connected to God
Controlling our tongue
Delaying gratification
Purposing in our heart
The product of choices
An instrumental virtue
Dominion over ourselves
Keeping our body under
Something that frees us
Controlling our emotions
Denying the lower nature
Something that compounds
A big part of achievement
Following in a better way
Freedom within constraint
Something to do with love
Surrendering consistently
The most exalted pleasure
The source of all liberty
Being a slave to obedience
Being motivated to do good
The hardest lesson in life
Something that leads to hope
Something we have to work at
Controlling our own behaviour
Listening to the sweeter song
Something bolstered by nature
Something that brings freedom
Avoiding extremes of behaviour
Making useful actions habitual
The first and greatest victory
The main factor behind success
The only discipline that lasts
A virtue of the highest quality
Not eating or drinking too much
Something promoted by community
Something that keeps us growing
Taking steps in duty and virtue
Avoiding things that are harmful
Something moderated by community
Something that is its own reward
The ability to control ourselves
Bringing our bodies into subjection
Choosing our response to stimulus
Not being a slave to our passions
Something subverted by loneliness
The beginning of practical wisdom
The chief element in self-respect
Not having too much of good things
Something necessary for a good life
The biggest public health challenge
Something characteristic of religion
Something that isn’t self-determined
Surrendering to God's purposes for us
A spirit kept gentle under provocation
Moderation or voluntary self-restraint
Something that strengthens by exercise
The greatest empire we can aspire unto
Not being in subjection to our appetite
The ability to resist negative impulses
Submitting every decision we make to God
The ability to do something we should do
Replacing sinful affections with holy ones
Committing ourselves to our best intentions
Something that has its root in self respect
Something that wins us a little credibility
Mastering ourselves by being mastered by God
Not about getting success or money or power
Keeping the things we love in the right order
Something at the foundation of all government
Resisting the temptation to put ourselves first
When right thoughts and actions become habitual
Having a purpose and following a plan or mission
Something that can’t be developed apart from God
Not being commanded by self, but commanded by God
Something that requires not control but surrender
Not being brought under the power of lawful things
Not overworking or working beyond a scheduled time
Mastering ourselves so we can be a servant of others
The ability to resist doing something we shouldn’t do
A foundation for the soul, to build the other virtues on
Finding someone wise or smart and choosing to follow them
Not just one good character trait, but a foundational one
Something that becomes easier through constant repetition
Something that grows when our life is rooted in divine reality
Reigning within ourselves, and ruling passions, desires and fears
Habitual moderation in the indulgence of the appetites or passions
The ability to do the right thing, even when we don’t feel like it
Revealed preference – not claimed preference or believed preference
Putting a space between wanting to do something and actually doing it
A powerful tool for living a life that glorifies God and blesses others
Knowing that what lies in our power to do, it lies in our power not to do
Something that arises from God’s abounding love and presence in the heart
Something that will abolish misery from our future and crimes from society
The ability to delay gratification and resist unwanted behaviours or urges
The ability to resist smaller more immediate rewards for bigger ones later
Not bringing our selves under our own control, but under the power of Christ
Not something more important than other virtues but necessary for the others
Something that enables us to suspend our interests enough to truly love others
Something that enables us to do what’s right, and ultimately what’s best for us
Something that will help us stand like a tower when everything shakes around us
Something not to be used for selfish reasons (this is a contradiction, an absurdity)
The ability to control behaviours in order to avoid temptations and to achieve goals
Something that produces more lasting pleasure than unwise, unworthy and criminal gratifications
The ability to regulate our emotions, thoughts, and behaviour in the face of temptations and impulses
Guarding against sins of commission (bad things we do) and sins of omission (good things we fail to do)
The habit of holding passion and prejudice and evil tendencies subject to an upright and reasoning will
Controlling our desires and impulses while staying focused on what needs to get done to achieve our goal
Something that facilitates the acquisition and development of other virtues like joy, gratitude, and generosity
Doing things for an ultimate purpose – to win the prize of being united to Christ and to help as many people as possible do the same
Calling ourselves to account, both for what we know, and what we do, and the discipline which we exercise over the processes of our minds
Deciding which of our desires we want to espouse, and then upholding them against the challenges of the competing desires that we like less
The ability to regulate and alter our responses in order to avoid undesirable behaviours, increase desirable ones, and achieve long-term goals
Not so much willpower as vision – the ability to see the future, so that the long-term consequences of our short-term choices are vividly clear